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From the sidebar, in case you are on mobile and can't see. An nmil/nmom is a narcissistic mil/mom. when he started packing up, they immediately noticed because they were always looking for excuses to go into his room and look through his stuff. Quicker than, "ugh, I hate that bitch.". I seat this is a serious question. JNMIL says she likes to practice knowing her medicine (she worked in the medical field) and he needs to get the bottle and read it to her. it’s been months since we’ve really chatted with them, so DH didn’t have his guard up and was just trying to have a good relationship with his parents. 2018-07-31 21:34:02 Wedding planning with JNMIL: she's nice, she's mean, there's a steel building where the head table was supposed to be. It should say "mean" not "means.". ._33axOHPa8DzNnTmwzen-wO{font-size:14px;font-weight:700;letter-spacing:.5px;line-height:32px;text-transform:uppercase;display:block;padding:0 16px;width:100%} Edit: Ugh! urbandictionary.com is a great source for things like this. I've figured out some, but it takes away from the story to be confused by the acronyms. this was kept on the down low from his parents, because up until this point they had already been sticking their fingers into our june wedding plans, trying making us change this and that, and then getting really upset when we weren’t budging. they kept insisting, and he kept telling them no. ._9ZuQyDXhFth1qKJF4KNm8{padding:12px 12px 40px}._2iNJX36LR2tMHx_unzEkVM,._1JmnMJclrTwTPpAip5U_Hm{font-size:16px;font-weight:500;line-height:20px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-bodyText);margin-bottom:40px;padding-top:4px}._306gA2lxjCHX44ssikUp3O{margin-bottom:32px}._1Omf6afKRpv3RKNCWjIyJ4{font-size:18px;font-weight:500;line-height:22px;border-bottom:2px solid var(--newCommunityTheme-line);color:var(--newCommunityTheme-bodyText);margin-bottom:8px;padding-bottom:8px}._2Ss7VGMX-UPKt9NhFRtgTz{margin-bottom:24px}._3vWu4F9B4X4Yc-Gm86-FMP{border-bottom:1px solid var(--newCommunityTheme-line);margin-bottom:8px;padding-bottom:2px}._3vWu4F9B4X4Yc-Gm86-FMP:last-of-type{border-bottom-width:0}._2qAEe8HGjtHsuKsHqNCa9u{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-bodyText);padding-bottom:8px;padding-top:8px}.c5RWd-O3CYE-XSLdTyjtI{padding:8px 0}._3whORKuQps-WQpSceAyHuF{font-size:12px;font-weight:400;line-height:16px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon);margin-bottom:8px}._1Qk-ka6_CJz1fU3OUfeznu{margin-bottom:8px}._3ds8Wk2l32hr3hLddQshhG{font-weight:500}._1h0r6vtgOzgWtu-GNBO6Yb,._3ds8Wk2l32hr3hLddQshhG{font-size:12px;line-height:16px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._1h0r6vtgOzgWtu-GNBO6Yb{font-weight:400}.horIoLCod23xkzt7MmTpC{font-size:12px;font-weight:400;line-height:16px;color:#ea0027}._33Iw1wpNZ-uhC05tWsB9xi{margin-top:24px}._2M7LQbQxH40ingJ9h9RslL{font-size:12px;font-weight:400;line-height:16px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon);margin-bottom:8px} Which makes anyone who enables their behavior an efil/edad or rail/sis, ebil/bro etc. DH was really upset at himself for not staying on top of how much she gets to know, but i told him that it’s not his fault she’s intrusive and a control freak. A place to get support and advice dealing with mean, nasty, toxic, and / or abusive MILs and moms. However, I do NOT understand all of the acronyms. | For help managing your subscriptions, click here. and to be honest, even if we were “hammering away like a sewing machine” like you said, i still don’t see how you get to determine what counts as “good sex” for other people. D(H/S/D) - Damn Husband, Damn Son, Damn Daughter. A jnmil/jnmom is someone who doesn't respect healthy boundaries and often is abusive towards their children and partners when ever discomfort or displeasure is expressed in regards to horrible behavior. long time lurker, first time poster! Update to JNMIL and JNFIL are at it again...., 3 weeks ago. this went on for a couple hours. It wasn't obvious to me after reading the sub information. Seriously ask yourself if they bring any good to your life. Texting is going to be your friend. If your only advice is to jump straight to NC or divorce, your comment may be subject to removal at moderator discretion. as crazy as they can be, that seems a little out of character to me. Oh yeah. I stalk you in this sub and allow others to subscribe to your posts. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts, co-vice senior executive director of CSS and excessive flair. Even though "honeymoon cystitis" is a medical thing (yeah, been there, done that, have tshirt), if you were my child I would have just asked if you were OK and forcing fluids. why does she think she gets to know about it, AND then tell us what to do with our sex life? it shifts the perspective a little. since then, things have been relatively quiet, and we don’t hear from them much. Maybe ask DH if these tricks would help him? Thanks. Relationships are a two way street. And, addressing the commenter - it's not the "sewing machine" or frequency, twit. You guys stayed that extra thirty min because you wanted to maintain the normal and expected in-law relationship. i only … I'm botinlaw. r/childfree: Discussion and links of interest to childfree individuals. Maybe she was trying to see if you were pregnant or had an STD or something. Full Rules | Acronym Index | Flair Guide| Report PM Trolls, Resources: In Crisis? i’m looking for advice on how to move forward with my in-laws, not how to change up life in the bedroom. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. for that car, we had the battery in the back seat instead of in the engine because again, we were in the process of getting it replaced. These are the habits/behaviours picked up from, or developed because of, the narcs in our lives. A JustNoMIL doesn't necessarily have a personality disorder like narcissism, but they are antagonistic to OP where an ordinary (healthy, well-adjusted) MIL wouldn't be. .ehsOqYO6dxn_Pf9Dzwu37{margin-top:0;overflow:visible}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu{height:24px}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu{border-radius:2px}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu:focus,._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu:hover{background-color:var(--newRedditTheme-navIconFaded10);outline:none}._38GxRFSqSC-Z2VLi5Xzkjy{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._2DO72U0b_6CUw3msKGrnnT{border-top:none;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);cursor:pointer;padding:8px 16px 8px 8px;text-transform:none}._2DO72U0b_6CUw3msKGrnnT:hover{background-color:#0079d3;border:none;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-body);fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-body)} I know the answer to both of those is "we want to have a good relationship with them", but I think it's important to ask these questions to gauge what you want and what you get. DH called his dad (since it’s technically his truck) to let him know what happened. when he told me what happened, i honestly just laughed. There are some on the sidebar. i’ll talk to my husband about this. Don't share any news with them (big, small, positive, negative) until 1. you're ready for it to be shared with the world (because I don't think you should risk trusting them to keep anything a secret), 2. you've had time to process it (if needed), and 3. are ready for them to trivialize/one-up/discredit/attempt to ruin/insult it. Mom Doesn't Think Coronavirus is Real, Sister is asking for help from me, 2 months ago. where do we go from here? (M/F/B/S)IL - Mother-in-law, father-in-law, brother-in-law, sister-in-law; if it has an S before any of the previous acronyms it indicates a step relationship. I saw those ones, but I appreciate the help anyway. Nurse-midwife, my kids grew up with it, they feel free to ask me anything and I will happily give advice. we did, and didn’t think much of it. DH told his mom medical stuff because he wanted to talk with his mom, like people would in a normal relationship. i called my mom and she was very sympathetic, and immediately told us about filing a police report, contacting insurance, etc and offered to take us to that night to get new batteries if we needed. we decided instead to have a spur of the moment, small wedding in april. Don't be shitty, this is a support sub. Or fuckwit. Live your life and keep them out of it as much as possible, you'll be happier. 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